You Belong Here: The Quiet Power of Communities
Last week, I was curled up in a hotel room, watching A Man Called Otto (I love Tom Hanks), feeling a bit out of place and missing my animals and the familiarity of home. Funny how those quiet moments—away from the usual noise—can stir something in you. It had me thinking about community, and how sometimes, without us even realising it, people are quietly showing up for us.
That same morning, I’d gone for a walk with my partner through an inner-city park. Among the trees and footpaths were tents—people sleeping rough. I watched as volunteers from Orange Sky and food trucks arrived, ensuring those experiencing homelessness had access to a warm drink, a good meal and clean clothes. It was organised care in action, and it made me reflect on how, for many, community support can be the only thread holding life together when family isn’t present or has fallen away.
A Man Called Otto is a powerful story about informal community care—kind neighbours, work colleagues, and people who quietly care. It reminded me that sometimes, family isn’t just about blood—it’s about the people who step in when we need them most. We often move through life believing we must do everything on our own, but in truth, community is always there—if we are willing to open the door.
The Heart of Human Connection
Over the years, I’ve seen how connection can change lives—including my own. When I’ve felt isolated or overwhelmed, it’s often been the small, quiet gestures of others that reminded me I’m not alone. A neighbour’s kindness, a message from a friend, or a simple offer of help—these moments are powerful reminders that people care.
The people who truly stand by us, support us, and bring love into our lives might not be family in the traditional sense, but they become just as important—if not more.
The Role of Community: Why We Need Each Other
Research shows that strong social connections improve mental and emotional well-being. In fact, the World Health Organization has named loneliness a global public health concern, with impacts comparable to smoking, obesity, and physical inactivity. Studies link loneliness to increased risks of heart disease (29%), stroke (32%), cognitive decline, and mental health struggles like anxiety and depression. The effect of loneliness is also linked to increased inflammation, a weakened immune system, and even premature mortality. Many of us withdraw at times, believing we can manage on our own—but human connection is not a luxury—it’s a necessity.
Community gives us:
• A sense of belonging – Knowing we are not alone, that others understand and support us.
• Emotional support – A safe space to share, heal, and be uplifted.
• Purpose and meaning – Helping others reminds us of our value and contribution.
• Joy and laughter – Shared moments, even the small ones, bring happiness and lighten life’s burdens.
At the heart of Mumma Chelles is a commitment to building meaningful connections and nurturing a strong sense of belonging through genuine community. Whether it’s through conversations, resources for families, educators, or care workers, our goal is to create opportunities for people to feel seen, supported, and valued—reminding each person that they truly belong.
While Mumma Chelles doesn’t have a physical store yet, I love connecting with our community at local markets, where I get to meet people face to face, share stories, and a laugh.
Whilst face-to-face connection is often the most powerful, I also understand that it’s not always possible—especially for those who live remotely or have limited support nearby. That’s why I welcome you to join the Mumma Chelles online community through our social media platforms. You can connect with us on Facebook and Instagram for regular encouragement, updates, and shared stories. It’s a space to share, learn, and uplift one another, no matter where you are. Even behind a screen, kindness and connection still matter.
Final Thoughts: Be Someone’s Community
Not everyone has a big family, and even those who do may not always feel supported. Community is about the connections we nurture—the people who walk beside us, chosen or not. Those small acts—checking in on a neighbour, offering a smile, or lending a hand—might change someone’s world.
Life becomes richer when we let people in. The support I received during my toughest moments—whether it was a simple check-in, a meal, bringing a coffee, or just knowing someone was there—taught me that true connection isn’t about grand gestures, but about people showing up, time and time again. At the end of the day, community isn’t just about being surrounded by people—it’s about truly showing up for one another; and just like Otto, sometimes the people who bring us back to life are the ones we least expect—quietly showing up with care, consistency, and connection when we need it most.
Have a great Sunday and an amazing week opening the door to community and being community to those around you.
Love,
Chelle
Special Education Complex Supports and Family Support Specialist
